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Key Features:
LGBTQ+ romance, Coming-of-age, Love story, Discrimination, Relationship drama, Tragedy, Memoir, High school romance, Homophobia, Loss, AIDS epidemic, Social prejudice, Love against the odds
Tone:
earnest, dramatic
Target Audience:
LGBTQ+ audience, Romance enthusiasts, Drama lovers, Biopic fans
Emotional Arc:
Joy → Hope → Heartbreak

Holding the Man

2015-08-27
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Tim and John fell in love while teenagers at their all-boys high school. John was captain of the football team, Tim an aspiring actor playing a minor part in Romeo and Juliet. Their romance endured for 15 years in the face of everything life threw at it – the separations, the discrimination, the temptations, the jealousies and the losses – until the only problem that love can't solve tried to destroy them.

Genres
Drama
Cast
Ryan Corr, Craig Stott, Guy Pearce, Sarah Snook, Anthony LaPaglia, Geoffrey Rush, Camilla Ah Kin, Kerry Fox, Tom Hobbs, Jacob Collins-Levy
Crew
Tommy Murphy, Neil Armfield
Rating
7.691(452 votes)
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Hidden Kisses
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12 and Holding
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Tim, a shy 16-year-old athlete with a natural gift for running, is dealing with the loss of his mother, as well as his sexuality. After a personal video is posted to social media, Tim's private life is about to explode into the public eye.



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Damien lives with his mother Marianne, a doctor, while his father, a pilot, is on a tour of duty abroad with the French military. At school, Damien is bullied by Thomas, who lives in the farming community up in the mountains. The boys find themselves living together when Marianne invites Thomas to come and stay with them while his mother is ill in hospital. Damien must learn to live with the boy who terrorized him.



Private Romeo
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The Invisible Thread
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The teenage son of two fathers makes a documentary film about his parents but is surprised when a real-life plot twist occurs in his family.



Love, Simon
8

Everyone deserves a great love story, but for 17-year-old Simon Spier, it's a little more complicated. He hasn't told his family or friends that he's gay, and he doesn't know the identity of the anonymous classmate that he's fallen for online.



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7.412

When an aspiring young artist is forced to join her high school track team, she uses it as an opportunity to pursue the girl she's been harboring a long-time crush on. But she soon finds herself falling for an unexpected teammate and discovers what real love feels like.



Giant Little Ones
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Two popular teen boys, best friends since childhood, discover their lives, families, and girlfriends dramatically upended after an unexpected incident occurs on the night of a 17th birthday party.



The Long Day Closes
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Bud is a lonely and quiet boy whose moments of solace occur when he sits in rapture at the local cinema, watching towering and iconic figures on the movie screen. The movies give Bud the strength to get through another day as he deals with his oppressive school environment and his burgeoning homosexuality.



Endless
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When madly in love high school graduates Riley and Chris are separated by a tragic car accident, Riley blames herself for her boyfriend's death while Chris is stranded in limbo. Miraculously, the two find a way to connect. In a love story that transcends life and death, both Riley and Chris are forced to learn the hardest lesson of all: letting go.



Just Friends
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The History Boys
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Love Story
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The Sum of Us
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Patrik, Age 1.5
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Nico and Dani
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A man is broken hearted at the loss of his lover, then later visits the same pain on the next woman with whom he becomes involved.



December Boys
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For many years, four teenage orphans at an Australian outback convent have watched their younger comrades find new parents, and realize that they may never be adopted. The Reverend Mother sends the four boys away on a seaside vacation, where they meet Teresa and Fearless, a couple who would make perfect parents. The youths compete with one another to be the one Teresa and Fearless decide to adopt.



For a Handful of Kisses

A girl. A boy. A love story. But also about dreams, fears, life, true love, friendship and how we deal with it. And a secret between them...



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The story of the onset of the HIV-AIDS crisis in New York City in the early 1980s, taking an unflinching look at the nation's sexual politics as gay activists and their allies in the medical community fight to expose the truth about the burgeoning epidemic to a city and nation in denial.



Boys Don't Cry
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A young transgender man explores his gender identity and searches for love in rural Nebraska.



In from the Side
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Boy Culture
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A successful gay male escort describes in a series of confessions his tangled romantic relationships with his two roommates and an older, enigmatic male client.



Challengers
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A young man of Chinese-Cambodian descent dies, leaving behind his isolated mother and his lover of four years. Though the two don't share a language, they grow close through their grief.



Keith
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Natalie is high school royalty, but her queen bee status falls apart when she falls for the new guy at school. Although Keith ignores her at first, they soon become friends -- even though Natalie suspects that Keith has something to hide. As the free-spirited Keith shows Natalie how to embrace what life offers, they grow closer -- until a secret tests the bounds of their relationship



Hidden Away
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From Beginning to End
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Close
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Say Anything...
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Young Hunter
6.268

Ezequiel, a sixteen-year-old gay teenager in his sexual awakening, meets a boy of twenty-one. They quickly start a relationship and the situation unravels unexpectedly.



Fire Island
6.983

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The Boys Are Back
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Dating Amber
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You Are Not Alone
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The Lost Boys
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Boy Meets Girl
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Given
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The Tearsmith
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Loving Annabelle
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Almost Friends
6.3

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She's the Man
6.815

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The Crying Game
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Beach Rats
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Girlfriend Boyfriend

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My Policeman
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In the late 1990s, the arrival of elderly invalid Patrick into Marion and Tom’s home triggers the exploration of seismic events from 40 years previous: the passionate relationship between Tom and Patrick at a time when homosexuality was illegal.



The Kissing Booth
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When teenager Elle's first kiss leads to a forbidden romance with the hottest boy in high school, she risks her relationship with her best friend.



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6.4

Growing up in a rural town filled with violent delinquents, Jack has learned to do what it takes to survive, despite having an oblivious mother and no father. After his aunt falls ill and a younger cousin comes to stay with him, the hardened 15-year-old discovers the importance of friendship, family, and looking for happiness even in the most desolate of circumstances.



Everything, Everything

A teenager who's lived a sheltered life because she's allergic to everything, falls for the boy who moves in next door.



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