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Key Features:
1970s, Punk rock, Coming-of-age, First love, Cultural clash, Outsider, Rebellion, Intergalactic, Music-centric, Teen romance, Nonconformity
Tone:
whimsical, humorous, stylized
Target Audience:
Teen romance fans, Sci-fi romance enthusiasts, Indie film lovers, Music fans
Emotional Arc:
Curiosity → Infatuation → Acceptance

How to Talk to Girls at Parties

2017-10-06
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In 1970s London, a teenage outsider named Enn falls in love with a rebellious alien girl named Zan, who has come to Earth for a party. Together, they navigate the complexities of intergalactic culture and the trials of first love.

Genres
Comedy, Music, Romance, Science Fiction
Cast
Elle Fanning, Alex Sharp, Nicole Kidman, Matt Lucas, Ruth Wilson, Abraham Lewis, Ethan Lawrence, Edward Petherbridge, Joanna Scanlan, Tom Brooke
Crew
Neil Gaiman, John Cameron Mitchell, John Cameron Mitchell, Philippa Goslett
Rating
5.996(412 votes)
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How to Build a Girl
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How to Deal
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A young French teenage girl after moving to a new city falls in love with a boy and is thinking of having sex with him because her girlfriends have already done it.



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7.439

A radio astronomer receives the first extraterrestrial radio signal ever picked up on Earth. As the world powers scramble to decipher the message and decide upon a course of action, she must make some difficult decisions between her beliefs, the truth, and reality.



The First Time
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Extraterrestrial
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Me Without You
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Quadrophenia
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