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Key Features:
Marriage, Writer, Relationship drama, Honesty, Lies, Communication, Emotional complexity, Mid-life crisis, Writers block, Trust
Tone:
humorous, earnest, witty
Target Audience:
Fans of relationship dramas, Viewers interested in marital dynamics, Those who enjoy witty comedies, People who appreciate character-driven stories
Emotional Arc:
Amusement → Discomfort → Resolution

You Hurt My Feelings

2023-05-26
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A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.

Genres
Comedy, Drama, Romance
Cast
Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins, Arian Moayed, Owen Teague, Amber Tamblyn, David Cross, Zach Cherry, LaTanya Richardson Jackson, Sarah Steele
Crew
Nicole Holofcener, Nicole Holofcener
Rating
6.378(169 votes)
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