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Key Features:
Identity crisis, Cultural identity, Bisexuality, Coming-of-age, Brooklyn, Family expectations, Modern relationships, Teenage angst, Independent film, Romantic comedy, Self-discovery
Tone:
humorous, witty
Target Audience:
LGBTQ+ viewers, Fans of independent film, Those interested in stories of self-discovery, Viewers who enjoy witty comedies
Emotional Arc:
Confusion → Acceptance

Appropriate Behavior

2015-03-14
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Shirin is struggling to become an ideal Persian daughter, politically correct bisexual and hip young Brooklynite but fails miserably in her attempt at all identities.

Genres
Comedy, Drama, Romance
Cast
Desiree Akhavan, Rebecca Henderson, Halley Feiffer, Ryan Fitzsimmons, Anh Duong, Hooman Majd, Arian Moayed, Justine Cotsonas, Scott Adsit, Maryann Urbano
Crew
Desiree Akhavan, Desiree Akhavan
Rating
6.3(102 votes)
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