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Key Features:
Forbidden love, Religious conflict, Repression, Coming-of-age, Reunion, Female friendship, Passion, Self-discovery, Cultural identity, Nudity-moderate, Sexuality, Estrangement, Tradition vs. modernity
Tone:
serious, restrained, dramatic
Target Audience:
Indie film enthusiasts, LGBTQ+ community, Drama lovers, Intellectual viewers
Emotional Arc:
Longing → Passion → Acceptance

Disobedience

2018-04-24
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New York photographer Ronit flies to London after learning about the death of her estranged father. Ronit is returning to the same Orthodox Jewish community that shunned her decades earlier for her childhood attraction to Esti, a female friend. Their fortuitous and happy reunion soon reignites their burning passion as the two women explore the boundaries of faith and sexuality.

Genres
Drama, Romance
Cast
Rachel Weisz, Rachel McAdams, Alessandro Nivola, Allan Corduner, Anton Lesser, Nicholas Woodeson, David Fleeshman, Steve Furst, Trevor Allan Davies, Sophia Brown
Crew
Sebastián Lelio, Rebecca Lenkiewicz, Sebastián Lelio
Rating
6.882(1254 votes)
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